Back Again?

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So, hey. It’s been what, close to a year since I wrote? I know, I know. That’s not unusual. I tend to take breaks now and then. But I realized recently that I miss writing. I miss just babbling about nonsense and posting pics and the occasional OOTD. So. Here I am!

2017. Babygirls just recently celebrated our 2nd Anniversary. The club is still going strong, and is better than ever. It’s self sufficient, and then some. We average between 80 and 110 employees, though over the summer at one point we had 130! We have some great ideas we’re going to implement moving forward, and I’m really excited for them. I think it will only improve things ever more!

DJ is…well and completely gone. He contacted me once in the last 6 months or so on Twitter telling me he’s working on his site again and asking if we can do some cross promoting/advertising, but I never heard from him again. Probably for the best since he’s not exactly what I’d call reliable. *shrugs*

We have a Fetish/BDSM party coming up this Friday, which is what the above pic is for, and I hope it goes well. We do themed events every Friday now, with DJ Emi on from 7pm-9pm SLT. And sometimes they’re packed. We’ve had to rez out more tipjars for all the girls!

I’m going to try to update the look of this blog this week too cuz…damn. Its not cute. lol.

What happened to Lily?

I’m still around, I swear! Sometimes I just take a break from writing for a while. For whatever reason. But, I’m still around. Babygirls is still around. SL is still around. lol.

Sometimes shit happens that I wanna vent about but I’ve restrained from it because I don’t wanna be one of those kind of people. YOU know. But I can’t resist on commenting on one thing. I won’t go into the whole story, but basically there’s a girl that haaaaates the club. Like, with an undying passion. So much so that she has us in her profile multiple times as a terrible place to work. She also says I have my head in the sand and am never in my own club. Which I find amusing. Sure, sometimes I might not be on the club floor because I’m with a client or doing an interview or working on something on another part of the sim. It IS a full sim after all. But what makes me laugh about this the most is before she was fired, she’d received multiple hours warnings because she wasn’t even in the club 2 hours a week. So, because I wasn’t there for the 30 mins a week she put in, I clearly was never around. Also the week she was fired and wrote all that nonsense was the week I was out of town. I had sent out multiple notices and posted in my profile that I was out of town for a week and a half or so for a RL vacation. One that I had been planning and talking about for several months. But yes. Never in my own club. *nods* 

Speaking of the club, we’re working on some renovations. We’re coming up on our 1 year anniversary so it was time for some updates. It’s all still very much a work in progress, but I’m excited about it. Here’s a little sneak preview:

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It really doesn’t show much of anything buuuttttt I’m still excited for the direction we’re moving in! 😀

*rolls around*

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Ugh, I haven’t written in FOREVER. I know. I keep meaning to but then I get easily distracted. Shiny things and all that.

First off, even though this is potentially dangerous cuz well…. there are plenty of people that don’t like me…. Strawberry Singh’s first Monday Meme of the summer is  “Ask Me”. And I’m going to follow her footsteps and make my own Ask.me account, where people can anonymously ask me things. Yikes. Here you go. Have at it.

Let’s see. Things and stuff.

Been remodeling the club and the sim quite a bit. Summer is always a bit slow so it seemed like a good opportunity to try and make some improvements. We moved the DDbg Resort to the same sim, but up in the air. A lot easier to maintain one sim instead of two, and there wasn’t really a NEED for two. So now they’re all set up on the same sim, with the club in one corner and DDbg in the other. Working on setting up a shopping area and probably some skybox rentals in the near future. Things have been going pretty good over all. We’ve got a few FANTASTIC girls really. And I’m so happy and get a bit proud momma bear when I see them chatting with each other, helping one another and just being a TEAM in general. I wanted all the girls to know they had friends and help available with Babygirls and we’re not all out to get one another. I don’t expect everyone to LIKE everyone else. That would just be impossible. But overall, drama is kept to an extreme minimum and I try to deal with it as soon as any crops up.

Things with Daddy are also good. Sometimes he’s too busy to be around much, but he still makes sure to at least take time out to say good morning and good night to me when he isn’t able to log on. Yesterday he was getting ready to go to bed but I was frustrated with some other stuff going on. And he ended up staying up longer just to goof around and make me laugh. And that meant a lot to me. We’ve been partnered now for just over 4 months. Sometimes I still can’t believe it, or how lucky I am to have him in my life. And I’m thankful for him every day.

Of course there are always going to be other things in SL that irk me. That goes without saying. There’s one person who I swear, every word she says, every little thing she does just makes me go UGHHHH. Even if it’s completely harmless. Just because the shit she does/says in general just BUGS THE EVER LOVING FUCK OUT OF ME. If I ever want to feel a complete feeling of rage wash over me for some reason, just looking at anything she does can make that happen. INSTANTLY. Buuuttt, even her nonsense isn’t that big a deal. I mostly can just avoid her and her self centered bullshit.

All things considered, I really can’t complain. I have the club I love. Girls I can trust and have fun with. Daddy who is just…. always one of the best parts of my day.

So. YAY! lol.

I think that’s about enough for now. If you want to ask me random nonsense, and I fully expect some asshole questions, feel free to CLICK THE LINK and go for it. If I get a few questions I’ll do another post with them as well.

Dream Cuddles

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I am so tired, but it’s been a few days since I wrote anything so wanted to make a quick appearance before passing out.

Things have been pretty decent the last couple days. Have hired some lovely new girls at the club who put in time and effort and are great to be around. Been keeping a closer eye on who does their hours and who doesn’t, and it seems to be making a difference. I was trying to be lenient but when I did that, too many girls would just completely fuck off. And shit, most clubs require far more hours that we do. Babygirls only asks for 2 hours a week. And honestly, if you can’t give 2 hours a week to a club, you probably shouldn’t be applying. Stick to freelancing. RL always comes first, but if I see you online 5 hours a day, 6 days a week and you can’t come in for more than 15 minutes, or at least give me and IM and let me know you have other shit going on…. then I don’t even know what to say to you. Come on.

Anyways. I am a little bit curious about one girl’s application. I’d heard so much drama from some girls that left another club months back. I don’t discount people because of rumors [hell, there are plenty of rumors about me] or shit other people say that I haven’t seen any proof of, but I do listen and I will keep an eye out for certain things, just in case. Anyways. This girl is someone I’ve seen around before and I’ve never had any problems with. Her app is good and she seems plenty nice. I just can’t help but wonder why she left the other club she was working. Shit, even if I don’t automatically believe rumors and gossip, I still get CURIOUS. I’m only human after all!

Still been putting a lot of work into revamping the club and the sim. Summer always get a bit slow so I want to take this time to make improvements. I’m also tossing around the idea of a summer class schedule. Optional, of course, but with various topics related to dancing, escorting, emoting, or even just SL in general. Anything some of the girls might want some help with and then set up some low key gatherings where girls with experience can share info and just help each other out in general. I think some of the girls would be interested and really benefit from it.

Today was pretty nice as a whole too. Got to spend some time with Daddy, which is always good. We watched Guardians of the Galaxy together because he had somehow never seen it before. And that was fun. I could watch that movie a dozen times. And I always love any time I get to spend with him.

But yes. Bed needs to happen. 5am and I like at least GETTING into my bed before the sun comes up. xD

Need to get back in the habit of writing

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I need to get back into the habit of writing! So I’m going to try to at least update every other day. Even if sometimes I don’t have anything overly interesting to say. So get ready for that. You’ve been warned!

Today wasn’t too bad. Daddy was able to be on a lot so we got the majority of the day together today. We put some more work into the revamping of the sim and creating the new Daddy Dom and babygirl Resort area. The entire sim is getting a makeover and I’m really excited for how it’s coming along so far. Still have a ton of work to do, but it’s fine and I think it will have an over all positive affect on the club and the resort.

Indulgence is still going on. I’ll need to blog some of the amazing clothes, furniture and accessories from that fair. There’s some great stuff there and I’ve got a ton of new things that I absolutely love.

We’re definitely in the full time Summer Slump now I think. Clients are a bit fewer and farther between. Summer ALWAYS get so slow for me. Though it does for the majority of the escorts and dancers I know. I guess kids are out of school so less privacy and people actually going OUTSIDE to do stuff. Pfft. Outside.

Over all though? Fairly decent day. Got hired by one of my regulars and then hit up a couple Arcade yard sales. There’s no way I can get into the Arcade yet. I’d crash in no time. lol. I did make a list of things I want though, and eventually it will have stuff to trade once either Daddy or I actually get INTO the Arcade. I’m going to send him most likely. One because his computer can handle it better than mine can AND because he has famously awesome gacha luck, especially if it’s something he’s getting for me. xD

Alright. That’s… that’s all I’ve got for now. It’s 4am and I would like to get up at a decent time tomorrow in case he’s able to be around as much as he was today.

OH. And here, on the off chance, Click HERE for my Arcade want/have list for June 2015.

N • 11 → Uber Neon

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I did NOT think I was going to make it into Uber so soon! Usually I end up waiting a week before trying to get in, since it’s always so full. Plus I lag the fuck out when events first open because my computer is ancient. But, with a little luck and a LOT of derendering, I managed to get in AND pick up all the things I wanted! This round is so BRIGHT and just makes me feel both like a kid (since I was born into one of the ages of Neon and came from the CITY OF NEON) and like summertime is right around the corner.

→ W H A T • I M • W E A R I N G ←

Shape // My Own

Body // Maitreya

Head // The Sugar Garden – MiMi

Eyes // Ikon

Hands & Feet // Slink

Hair // Truth – Sukie – NEW @ Uber

Top // Eaters Coma – Crop Cami w/ Sunglasses – NEW @ Uber

Panties // No Cabide – Lace Lingerie Black

Shoes // Babygirls – MaryJanes – Purple

Table // Aria – NEW @ Uber

Candles // Aria – NEW @ Uber

Rug // Floorplan – Faux Fur

Pose // Ploom – PYT

Location // Babygirls Store

Got some catching up to do.

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Been a while since I updated! I even completely missed the Monday Meme so now it’s the…not…Monday Meme. Anyways. It’s a short one anyways, so might as well do it before I get into the other things that have been going on this week! The theme this week was Double Threat!

Two online screen names you’ve had:

I don’t really want to share any of my really old ones. lmao. But as far as SL goes, there’s my current name of Slut Fallen, and my original account which hasn’t even been logged into in ages, Lilysyn Gloom.

Two video games you have played:

Count all 3 Diablos as one I guess. lol. I also spent some time playing the free MMO ASDA with some friends of mine years ago. It’s nothing fancy, but I had a BLAST playing with them so it stands out in my memory.

Two things you love about SL:

Being able to SHOP and dress up as anything I might feel like. And being able to meet people from around the world that I would never have known otherwise.

Two things you’ve done in SecondLife:

Well, currently managing/co-owning/whatever Babygirls, which is by far one of the most enjoyable things I’ve done. And well, I’m an escort so…. once I got paid to have swords thrown at me. That was interesting.

Two things you still want to do in SL:

I’d like to get better at creating things. Maybe try building some more. Annnnd….. I dunno… Maybe give DJing another try one of these days. Though I wasn’t super good at it. lol.

Two things you like about your SecondLife Avatar:

This changes all the time. lol. Currently I am in love with the way my Lara Hurley skin looks on my TMP face, even after I spent months saying I would never use a mesh head. Annnnd I fucking adore having my Maitreya body.

Two of your SecondLife pet peeves:

This one came up a couple times this week. Maybe I’m just old fashioned, but people I DON’T EVEN KNOW asking about my money/DJ’s money/club finances. And I just feel like someone asking someone else about their money is incredibly rude. Also, I hate when I get alpha glitching errors on my mesh body and my tattoo/underwear layer does that disappearing act thing.

Two things you did as a noob that you’re embarrassed about:

I spent my first couple days wearing shoes without the shoe base because I didn’t know I needed to wear that too. Also I remember having to ask someone how to fly up and down because I couldn’t figure it out.

Two of your closest friends in SL:

Ell and DJ. Hands down.

Two of your most beloved things in your inventory:

I don’t think I could pick specific things. Just pictures and NCs of hilarious things that we’ve done in general.

Ok, this entry is already longer than I thought it was going to be, so just a quick overview of the other things that have happened recently. lol.

DJ decided he was going to start making shoes. And he’s been getting better with every shoe line he does. I’ve been enjoying doing the vendor pics for it, and of course testing out the shoes for him! Ell and I told him we fully support this shoe store idea of his. lol. But really, he is definitely getting better. And like I said in my last entry about him, I enjoy watching him get excited about making new things and trying out stuff. He’s always happier when he has some sort of project to work on, and I’m always willing to go along with whatever wackiness he comes up with in that respect. Me getting some awesome shoes out of it is just a bonus. xD