Busting at the seams.

You ever find out about something that pisses you off SO DAMN MUCH, but there’s nothing you can immediately do about it? That’s how I’m feeling right now. Sometimes people seem to think they’re sneaky. Also, they seem to think the world revolves around them.

Well let me tell you something honey. I’ve been doing my shit for years since before I met you, and I can keep my world right on turning without you in it. AaaaaaaaAAAAaaaAhhHHhhhh….

Seriously. I just want to rage the fuck out. But hey, big picture shit. Somethings need to be handled with care and this is just one of them. But it’s so hard to be nice and professional around this person when now I’ve seen their shit first hand. Bitches think they’re being sneaky and shit.

 

I just want to rant and rave and just scream. To be fair, I probably shouldn’t even be vague-blogging about it, but it’s fucking driving me nuts right now to have to play nice with this person that thinks the sun shines out their ass and more or less implied that I’m useless.

FuuuucCCCKkkkk.

I wanted to post some other shit and pictures from my birthday, but I had to get this out of my system first. I’ll try to write a more coherent and interesting post later instead of this non-specific rage out.

What happened to Lily?

I’m still around, I swear! Sometimes I just take a break from writing for a while. For whatever reason. But, I’m still around. Babygirls is still around. SL is still around. lol.

Sometimes shit happens that I wanna vent about but I’ve restrained from it because I don’t wanna be one of those kind of people. YOU know. But I can’t resist on commenting on one thing. I won’t go into the whole story, but basically there’s a girl that haaaaates the club. Like, with an undying passion. So much so that she has us in her profile multiple times as a terrible place to work. She also says I have my head in the sand and am never in my own club. Which I find amusing. Sure, sometimes I might not be on the club floor because I’m with a client or doing an interview or working on something on another part of the sim. It IS a full sim after all. But what makes me laugh about this the most is before she was fired, she’d received multiple hours warnings because she wasn’t even in the club 2 hours a week. So, because I wasn’t there for the 30 mins a week she put in, I clearly was never around. Also the week she was fired and wrote all that nonsense was the week I was out of town. I had sent out multiple notices and posted in my profile that I was out of town for a week and a half or so for a RL vacation. One that I had been planning and talking about for several months. But yes. Never in my own club. *nods* 

Speaking of the club, we’re working on some renovations. We’re coming up on our 1 year anniversary so it was time for some updates. It’s all still very much a work in progress, but I’m excited about it. Here’s a little sneak preview:

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It really doesn’t show much of anything buuuttttt I’m still excited for the direction we’re moving in! 😀

For the record.

slan·der
ˈslandər/
nounLAW
1.
the action or crime of making a false spoken statement damaging to a person’s reputation.
“he is suing the TV network for slander”
verb
1.
make false and damaging statements about (someone).
“they were accused of slandering the head of state”
synonyms: defame (someone’s character), blacken someone’s name, tell lies about, speak ill/evil of, sully someone’s reputation, libel, smear, cast aspersions on, spread scandal about, besmirch, tarnish, taint;

Key word, FALSE.

Also, let’s say there’s a broad statement made. Such as, “Some people like to poop in shoes.”

You happen to be a person that likes to poop in shoes. You see this statement, and realize, “Hey, I relate to that statement!”

That isn’t slander. Unless you tell other people, no one knows you like to poop in shoes. The person making the statement was not singling you out for pooping in shoes. They didn’t say “Sally Sue likes to poop in shoes”. That is not slander.

HOWEVER. You going around and telling people the person who made the initial shoe poopin’ statement is spreading lies about you or that they are talking about shoe poop only because they’re mad at you for an unrelated topic, or that they in general are a terrible person, and you make it specific enough that people contact the person out of the blue to confront them about being a bad person? You’ve actually slandered THEM.

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*rolls around*

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Ugh, I haven’t written in FOREVER. I know. I keep meaning to but then I get easily distracted. Shiny things and all that.

First off, even though this is potentially dangerous cuz well…. there are plenty of people that don’t like me…. Strawberry Singh’s first Monday Meme of the summer is  “Ask Me”. And I’m going to follow her footsteps and make my own Ask.me account, where people can anonymously ask me things. Yikes. Here you go. Have at it.

Let’s see. Things and stuff.

Been remodeling the club and the sim quite a bit. Summer is always a bit slow so it seemed like a good opportunity to try and make some improvements. We moved the DDbg Resort to the same sim, but up in the air. A lot easier to maintain one sim instead of two, and there wasn’t really a NEED for two. So now they’re all set up on the same sim, with the club in one corner and DDbg in the other. Working on setting up a shopping area and probably some skybox rentals in the near future. Things have been going pretty good over all. We’ve got a few FANTASTIC girls really. And I’m so happy and get a bit proud momma bear when I see them chatting with each other, helping one another and just being a TEAM in general. I wanted all the girls to know they had friends and help available with Babygirls and we’re not all out to get one another. I don’t expect everyone to LIKE everyone else. That would just be impossible. But overall, drama is kept to an extreme minimum and I try to deal with it as soon as any crops up.

Things with Daddy are also good. Sometimes he’s too busy to be around much, but he still makes sure to at least take time out to say good morning and good night to me when he isn’t able to log on. Yesterday he was getting ready to go to bed but I was frustrated with some other stuff going on. And he ended up staying up longer just to goof around and make me laugh. And that meant a lot to me. We’ve been partnered now for just over 4 months. Sometimes I still can’t believe it, or how lucky I am to have him in my life. And I’m thankful for him every day.

Of course there are always going to be other things in SL that irk me. That goes without saying. There’s one person who I swear, every word she says, every little thing she does just makes me go UGHHHH. Even if it’s completely harmless. Just because the shit she does/says in general just BUGS THE EVER LOVING FUCK OUT OF ME. If I ever want to feel a complete feeling of rage wash over me for some reason, just looking at anything she does can make that happen. INSTANTLY. Buuuttt, even her nonsense isn’t that big a deal. I mostly can just avoid her and her self centered bullshit.

All things considered, I really can’t complain. I have the club I love. Girls I can trust and have fun with. Daddy who is just…. always one of the best parts of my day.

So. YAY! lol.

I think that’s about enough for now. If you want to ask me random nonsense, and I fully expect some asshole questions, feel free to CLICK THE LINK and go for it. If I get a few questions I’ll do another post with them as well.

Dream Cuddles

Dream Cuddle

I am so tired, but it’s been a few days since I wrote anything so wanted to make a quick appearance before passing out.

Things have been pretty decent the last couple days. Have hired some lovely new girls at the club who put in time and effort and are great to be around. Been keeping a closer eye on who does their hours and who doesn’t, and it seems to be making a difference. I was trying to be lenient but when I did that, too many girls would just completely fuck off. And shit, most clubs require far more hours that we do. Babygirls only asks for 2 hours a week. And honestly, if you can’t give 2 hours a week to a club, you probably shouldn’t be applying. Stick to freelancing. RL always comes first, but if I see you online 5 hours a day, 6 days a week and you can’t come in for more than 15 minutes, or at least give me and IM and let me know you have other shit going on…. then I don’t even know what to say to you. Come on.

Anyways. I am a little bit curious about one girl’s application. I’d heard so much drama from some girls that left another club months back. I don’t discount people because of rumors [hell, there are plenty of rumors about me] or shit other people say that I haven’t seen any proof of, but I do listen and I will keep an eye out for certain things, just in case. Anyways. This girl is someone I’ve seen around before and I’ve never had any problems with. Her app is good and she seems plenty nice. I just can’t help but wonder why she left the other club she was working. Shit, even if I don’t automatically believe rumors and gossip, I still get CURIOUS. I’m only human after all!

Still been putting a lot of work into revamping the club and the sim. Summer always get a bit slow so I want to take this time to make improvements. I’m also tossing around the idea of a summer class schedule. Optional, of course, but with various topics related to dancing, escorting, emoting, or even just SL in general. Anything some of the girls might want some help with and then set up some low key gatherings where girls with experience can share info and just help each other out in general. I think some of the girls would be interested and really benefit from it.

Today was pretty nice as a whole too. Got to spend some time with Daddy, which is always good. We watched Guardians of the Galaxy together because he had somehow never seen it before. And that was fun. I could watch that movie a dozen times. And I always love any time I get to spend with him.

But yes. Bed needs to happen. 5am and I like at least GETTING into my bed before the sun comes up. xD

SCAMMER! SCAMMMERRR!

I’ve had a lot of people call me a scammer lately.

The first was the girl that I fired from the club. She said I scammed her out of her hourly reward benefits and the money the penthouse she could have been living in would have been worth. She also thought I fired her just because I didn’t want to pay her, when really I had conversations with her about the problems I was having with her and the complaints I was getting from other girls about her. And she decided to ignore all of that and just harp on the few things that she was obsessed with commenting on, while completely disrespecting me in the process. Anyways.

Then tonight a guy posts in our VIP group that one of our girls was a scammer. I told him in the VIP group to please IM me and tell me what happened so we could try to handle the situation. He didn’t IM me or reply, so I IMed him annnnd he didn’t reply. Then I messaged the girl to get her side of it. It boils down to he approached her in a different club, NOT EVEN MY CLUB, and asked her about her services. She told him a sub rp session would be 3k. He then asked if she voiced, and she said yes.

The chat log that HE sent me clearly showed that he did not hire her for voice. Just asked if she DID voice.

So, he pays her and apparently what happened was he thought asking if she voiced meant that he was hiring her for voice. So when he wanted her to get on voice, she told him it would cost extra because he hadn’t hired her for voice, only asked if she DID voice. And I told him that honestly, I agreed with her. Just because she has voice available doesn’t mean you hired her for voice. I compared it to ordering pizza, which made Daddy laugh. I said that just like a pizza, wanting extra toppings added means that the cost would go up. This is when he decided I was a scammer too.
[22:43] Wants Free Pizza: i will spread the word you are scammers
[22:46] Wants Free Pizza: i will go through your other groups and do the same to you… i will teach you scamers to do fair business
[22:46] Slut Fallen: lol, I didn’t scam you. You have never given me money or asked to hire me.
[22:46] Slut Fallen: How have I scammed you?
[22:46] Wants Free Pizza: i am not happy with your service i would just share this chat with her
[22:47] Wants Free Pizza: and say you supported her
[22:47] Wants Free Pizza: i will let people decide
[22:47] Wants Free Pizza: i believe many folks in this conversion
[22:47] Slut Fallen: lol, what happened wasn’t a scam, and it didn’t even happen in my club.
[22:47] Wants Free Pizza: would understand that this is about voice
[22:47] Wants Free Pizza: well it is about your attitude
[22:48] Wants Free Pizza: towards things
[22:48] Wants Free Pizza: honestly if she is professional
[22:48] Wants Free Pizza: she would return money?
[22:48] Wants Free Pizza: 🙂
[22:48] Slut Fallen: soooo. Because you’ve never been in my club, hired me, or paid me…… you’re going to tell people I’m a scammer. That makes total sense
[22:48] Slut Fallen: Anyways. Again, Have a good night.
[22:48] Wants Free Pizza: i will say that you support scamer
[22:49] Wants Free Pizza: which you did
[22:49] Wants Free Pizza: which tells would be expected in your club
[22:49] Wants Free Pizza: i just have habit to teach scamers that there is responsibility
[22:49] Slut Fallen: lol, again. Have a good night.

Then I just had Daddy ban him from the club and I banned him from all my groups. xD

Need to get back in the habit of writing

Pastel Elf Lily

I need to get back into the habit of writing! So I’m going to try to at least update every other day. Even if sometimes I don’t have anything overly interesting to say. So get ready for that. You’ve been warned!

Today wasn’t too bad. Daddy was able to be on a lot so we got the majority of the day together today. We put some more work into the revamping of the sim and creating the new Daddy Dom and babygirl Resort area. The entire sim is getting a makeover and I’m really excited for how it’s coming along so far. Still have a ton of work to do, but it’s fine and I think it will have an over all positive affect on the club and the resort.

Indulgence is still going on. I’ll need to blog some of the amazing clothes, furniture and accessories from that fair. There’s some great stuff there and I’ve got a ton of new things that I absolutely love.

We’re definitely in the full time Summer Slump now I think. Clients are a bit fewer and farther between. Summer ALWAYS get so slow for me. Though it does for the majority of the escorts and dancers I know. I guess kids are out of school so less privacy and people actually going OUTSIDE to do stuff. Pfft. Outside.

Over all though? Fairly decent day. Got hired by one of my regulars and then hit up a couple Arcade yard sales. There’s no way I can get into the Arcade yet. I’d crash in no time. lol. I did make a list of things I want though, and eventually it will have stuff to trade once either Daddy or I actually get INTO the Arcade. I’m going to send him most likely. One because his computer can handle it better than mine can AND because he has famously awesome gacha luck, especially if it’s something he’s getting for me. xD

Alright. That’s… that’s all I’ve got for now. It’s 4am and I would like to get up at a decent time tomorrow in case he’s able to be around as much as he was today.

OH. And here, on the off chance, Click HERE for my Arcade want/have list for June 2015.